Listen to Yourself
Have you ever listened to yourself? I bet you have. You probably can count many times when you had a thought and then did the opposite because you thought it might not have been the best choice. A good deal of the time you were right the very first time. We are taught to not trust ourselves. To trust what society has taught us because that is what is best. Who says? That, is what I want to know! Over the years I have found from my experience and also listening to the experience of others that what society dictates is rarely what we feel in our heart and soul. So why do we walk that line? Women have intuition. Yes, it’s true!! It’s not some fairy tale or magical spell that comes upon us, it is real. We have been conditioned not to trust it.
Trust in yourself!! Listen to your gut. What does true happiness mean to you? You know in your gut!! It feels good. It feels easy and it is almost effortless in execution. You feel “in the flow” while doing it. This can be anything, food choices, career, partners, children, places to live, people you meet. Your soul is speaking to you and you should be listening. Your body sends you signals when it is not right and you need to listen. When you listen you will make the right choices.
When you listen to what your soul wants and needs as woman, you create a whole host of good vibes within your self. You create a loving environment where you can flourish. You will grow and expand beyond anything you could ever imagine. That is not only excellent for you, but can also be good for others who choose to be in your life.
People may look at you and say things like, “you are selfish”, “You have changed”, “You are a rebel”, Whatever they want to come up with is fine, because it is not their life you are living, it is yours. Yes, you can live and be with others and be nurturing and caring. Yet, you are the only one that you are going to be with, FOREVER. People come and go. People pass on. You are going to be with you FOREVER. So, enjoy yourself and listen to the signals your body and soul are calling out. Feed the goodness within and trust that you know what is best for you.
Don’t let time pass you by and look back and say, “I should have trusted my first instinct and did XYZ” Go out there and do things that bring you happiness. Trust something when it doesn’t feel right and when it does. Listen to your intuition!
